8

How to Start a Fitness Program Without Exercising

by Donna Maria

I am not fit (yet), nor am I a fitness expert. But on April 18, 2009, after months of procrastination and years of false starts, I started a new fitness program. I’ve been Tweeting and Facebooking my progress and am thankful to the many people who are cheering me on.

dm_am_fitwalk

That’s me pictured with one of my fitness inspirations, Anne-Marie Faiola of Brambleberry (@brambleberry).

This undertaking is very difficult, but I am doing it. I’ve shared a few of my insights here and here. Since I’m still new at this, I’m in the perfect position to speak to people who are out of shape and at a loss about how to do anything about it.

Here are three things you can do to start a fitness program without exercising. Though I did not plan it in advance, this is essentially how I started out on April 18.

  1. Tour a local gym. Don’t make a commitment to do anything other than show up for the tour. Most gyms have enough staff to host a tour on a walk-in basis, but if you’re not sure, call ahead and make an appointment. Tour the gym (more than one if possible) and learn about their offerings and fees. Take the brochures and flyers home. Read them and put them in a place where you’ll see them often to be reminded of the choice you have to change your life for the better.
  2. Watch fit people engage in fitness related activities. For example, watch a tennis match at a public court, a 5K run, a swimming or track meet or an aerobics class. Do this live, not via your couch and television set so you can surround yourself with the entire experience. Watch the participants. Observe how they move. Do they appear confident? Empowered? Excited? Would you like to look and feel more like that?
  3. Watch exercise videos. Again, don’t do anything, just pop them in your DVD player and watch. Listen to the sound of the instructor’s voice. Watch the participants. Pay close attention to the close-up shots. Can you see abdominal muscles flex when they do crunches? Can you see how their biceps look when they lift dumb bells? Can you see how their thighs look when they do squats? Does it look good to you? Would you like your thighs to look less like they do now? Could the video help that happen?

I am not suggesting that you watch videos and events so you can compare yourself to others and beat yourself up because you’ll never look like them.

I am suggesting that you watch others experience the benefits of exercise so you are in a better position to decide whether you want more of the kind of lifestyle they have, and less of the kind of lifestyle you have right now.

Starting a fitness routine is challenging for anyone who has never liked exercise (me) or who has gotten so out of shape (me) that the thought of walking from the back of the parking lot to the front door of the grocery store can cause high levels of anxiety.

If you want to start a fitness regime, but you don’t feel like you can yet, start by exposing yourself to the benefits of exercise by spending time around fit people. It may work for you. It may not. But it can’t hurt.

If rubbing shoulders with people who take time for themselves has any influence at all, it will certainly be positive one.

Question: What are your tips for helping beginner’s start a fitness program? How do you motivate yourself?

You Might Also Like:

posted on May 29, 2009 ·

Facebook comments:

  • http://MovementAsAWayIn.com/ Jenn Givler

    Congratulations dM! I’ve been following your progress and you’re doing awesome!

    Movement and exercise are near and dear to my heart – not only do I love fitness… but movement (dance, yoga, trail running, kayaking, etc…) is a way for me to connect inwardly – it’s a way to get back to myself. I’m always excited to hear when someone discovers it for themselves!

    My beginner tip is – don’t be afraid to start small. If you’re brand new to fitness, start with just 10 minutes a day if that’s all you can do. And – if you’re brand new, ANY activity counts.

    If your 10 minutes is just walking up and down your street – great!

    Don’t beat yourself up or push too hard… that will only make it more frustrating.

    As you progress, you’ll naturally want to do more movement and add more time on.

    Also – things like changing bed sheets, cleaning, dusting, vacuuming – they count as movement too ;)

  • http://MovementAsAWayIn.com Jenn Givler

    Congratulations dM! I’ve been following your progress and you’re doing awesome!

    Movement and exercise are near and dear to my heart – not only do I love fitness… but movement (dance, yoga, trail running, kayaking, etc…) is a way for me to connect inwardly – it’s a way to get back to myself. I’m always excited to hear when someone discovers it for themselves!

    My beginner tip is – don’t be afraid to start small. If you’re brand new to fitness, start with just 10 minutes a day if that’s all you can do. And – if you’re brand new, ANY activity counts.

    If your 10 minutes is just walking up and down your street – great!

    Don’t beat yourself up or push too hard… that will only make it more frustrating.

    As you progress, you’ll naturally want to do more movement and add more time on.

    Also – things like changing bed sheets, cleaning, dusting, vacuuming – they count as movement too ;)

  • http://www.soap-queen.blogspot.com/ Anne-Marie

    dM, You’re doing a great job on your fitness goals. I agree with Jenn – it’s fine to just get in that 10 minutes a day. Some days, it’s all I can do to just slot in 10 minutes of yoga. Keeping the little promises you make to yourself, even when no one can see you, is an amazing accomplishment. It’s an honor to be on this journey with you.

  • http://www.soap-queen.blogspot.com Anne-Marie

    dM, You’re doing a great job on your fitness goals. I agree with Jenn – it’s fine to just get in that 10 minutes a day. Some days, it’s all I can do to just slot in 10 minutes of yoga. Keeping the little promises you make to yourself, even when no one can see you, is an amazing accomplishment. It’s an honor to be on this journey with you.

  • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com/ donnamaria

    @Jenn: Thanks for the support and the reminder that it’s OK to start small. I find myself balancing the need to start in a reasonable way with the need to actually challenge myself and make real changes consistently. I’m finding my personal sweet spot, which actually changes from day to day. I am so enjoying this time in my life and you are part of the reason why.

    @A-M: My fitness hero! How can I say thank you for helping me combine accountability with a reasonable approach. You so rock girl! This just gets better and better.

  • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com donnamaria

    @Jenn: Thanks for the support and the reminder that it’s OK to start small. I find myself balancing the need to start in a reasonable way with the need to actually challenge myself and make real changes consistently. I’m finding my personal sweet spot, which actually changes from day to day. I am so enjoying this time in my life and you are part of the reason why.

    @A-M: My fitness hero! How can I say thank you for helping me combine accountability with a reasonable approach. You so rock girl! This just gets better and better.

  • http://beclever.wordpress.com/ Bek

    Good tips!
    I’m trying to incorporate fitness into my world as well.

    I started another round of physical therapy last month to help rebuild my muscles to prevent additional damage to my spine (right now we are focusing on me being able to sit unassisted for more than a few minutes at a time…baby steps).

    The thing that is keeping me motivated is setting small attainable/reasonable (but not freebie!) goals and mini-challenges in my everyday life- but I’m also being fairly diligent about setting new mini-goals as I reach the existing ones, as slacking off in setting the new ones was always a point of backsliding in the past.

    I also know that with all of the demands of everyday life(business, special needs kiddo, extended family, etc), it’s easy to drop fitness from the to-do list-especially with limited energy at the start of the day. At 33 I know myself fairly well, so I don’t give excuses a chance to pop up. I wake up and go to PT- before my brain is even awake enough to remember the 8 zillion other things that I need to do (and then I have the rest of the day to do them)…. I have different sets of exercises depending on where the pain is the worst and the amount of pain- so there are no excuses to skip movement for even a day. Being consistent is key for me. My goals are more focused on quality of life rather than numbers these days and that makes a difference as well. Strangely, I’m a very analytical person, but for some reason qualitative goals seem to be working for me….

    Curious to see more tips from other Indie Business readers!

  • http://beclever.wordpress.com Bek

    Good tips!
    I’m trying to incorporate fitness into my world as well.

    I started another round of physical therapy last month to help rebuild my muscles to prevent additional damage to my spine (right now we are focusing on me being able to sit unassisted for more than a few minutes at a time…baby steps).

    The thing that is keeping me motivated is setting small attainable/reasonable (but not freebie!) goals and mini-challenges in my everyday life- but I’m also being fairly diligent about setting new mini-goals as I reach the existing ones, as slacking off in setting the new ones was always a point of backsliding in the past.

    I also know that with all of the demands of everyday life(business, special needs kiddo, extended family, etc), it’s easy to drop fitness from the to-do list-especially with limited energy at the start of the day. At 33 I know myself fairly well, so I don’t give excuses a chance to pop up. I wake up and go to PT- before my brain is even awake enough to remember the 8 zillion other things that I need to do (and then I have the rest of the day to do them)…. I have different sets of exercises depending on where the pain is the worst and the amount of pain- so there are no excuses to skip movement for even a day. Being consistent is key for me. My goals are more focused on quality of life rather than numbers these days and that makes a difference as well. Strangely, I’m a very analytical person, but for some reason qualitative goals seem to be working for me….

    Curious to see more tips from other Indie Business readers!

Previous post:

Next post: