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Teaching kids about business

by Donna Johnson

This past Saturday, my 5-year old son and 7-year old daughter held an impromptu garage sale in the driveway during the annual spring neighborhood garage sales. They dragged some things we didn’t need from the garage, used a pencil box for a cash register and set out on their entrepreneurial venture. My husband and I decided not to offer assistance unless they asked for it. They enlisted the help of another little girl in the neighborhood and they were off.

About 10 minutes after they had set up, my daughter was sitting in her pink chair crying her eyes out at the end of the driveway. She was crushed that no one was stopping at her “store.” My husband consoled her, telling her: that’s how business is. At first, no one comes, but if you smile and invite people, eventually, they’ll stop by to see what you have to offer. But, he told her, you have to be persistent and not give up. She hung in there and as the hours progressed, people did stop by and they purchased things too!

Of course, since I’m a small business speaker and consultant, the whole episode reminded me of how in real business, the same thing happens. You work really hard to set up your store or your website, then you open your doors with confidence and flair, and sometimes, no one shows up. But if you keep sharing what you have to offer in a friendly way, eventually, the tide will turn. Sometimes it turns quickly, sometimes not. You may have to adjust your style, your behavior or even your product line, but if you continue to smooth off the rough edges of your business and focus on serving a genuine need, your business will be successful.

Question: Have you ever felt like my daughter did, crushed and deflated because no one was coming to your blog or your store? I know I have! Tell me your story in the comments section below.

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posted on May 4, 2009 ·

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  • http://www.soapylove.com Debbie Chialtas

    I still feel like your daughter did (crying at the end of the driveway)now and then. I think, when you own your own business, that you put a lot of yourself into every decision and if it doesn’t work it’s very hard not to take it very seriously (and sometimes personally!).
    But determination, confidence, and patience are crucial! This sounded like a really great learning experience for your kids!

  • http://www.soapylove.com Debbie

    I still feel like your daughter did (crying at the end of the driveway)now and then. I think, when you own your own business, that you put a lot of yourself into every decision and if it doesn’t work it’s very hard not to take it very seriously (and sometimes personally!).
    But determination, confidence, and patience are crucial! This sounded like a really great learning experience for your kids!

  • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com/ Donna Maria @ Indie Business

    @Debbie: Yes, I’m just like my daughter sometimes too. All I need is the pink chair!! I’m thankful for her experience, not just for her but for me too. I needed the reminders of determination, confidence and patience too. Thanks for stopping by with your perspective. You, me, 2 pink chairs and a bottle of Chardonnay.

  • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com Donna Maria @ Indie Business

    @Debbie: Yes, I’m just like my daughter sometimes too. All I need is the pink chair!! I’m thankful for her experience, not just for her but for me too. I needed the reminders of determination, confidence and patience too. Thanks for stopping by with your perspective. You, me, 2 pink chairs and a bottle of Chardonnay.

  • Darren Arnaud

    In the past I always felt like Daffy Duck in that Warner Brothers cartoon spoof of “Robin Hood”. Its the one where Daffy starts swinging from one tree to another, but the vines are too long and the trees are too close togeher all in a straight line. He ends up crashing into each tree and doesn’t stop until he’s reached the last one. “YIKES and AWAY” smak “YIKES and AWAY” smak, and on and on. By the time he gets to the last tree he’s bruised, beaten, and has knots poking out of his head from all the trauma…But he’s still going, and refuses to give up. His persistence is legendary.
    We’d all like to feel more like Bugs Bunny in that one, but a reality is that most folks start off like Daffy or at least go through periods of time when things are little tougher than normal. The way I see it is that someone like Buggs might be around to show off a better way by teaching a “short cutter” a valuable lesson. A “short cutter” who’s hell bent, and either just plain old stubborn or really does not know and aught to seek further education for better advancement.
    So maybe the moral of that cartoon is learn from your mistakes and be nice to people (nothing like great customer service), or else one might end up like Daffy.
    (Well, I managed to turn what would have been a simple answer into a moral mini sermon…which may not even relate to the origional question anymore)
    Have a great day,
    Darren.

  • Darren Arnaud

    In the past I always felt like Daffy Duck in that Warner Brothers cartoon spoof of “Robin Hood”. Its the one where Daffy starts swinging from one tree to another, but the vines are too long and the trees are too close togeher all in a straight line. He ends up crashing into each tree and doesn’t stop until he’s reached the last one. “YIKES and AWAY” smak “YIKES and AWAY” smak, and on and on. By the time he gets to the last tree he’s bruised, beaten, and has knots poking out of his head from all the trauma…But he’s still going, and refuses to give up. His persistence is legendary.
    We’d all like to feel more like Bugs Bunny in that one, but a reality is that most folks start off like Daffy or at least go through periods of time when things are little tougher than normal. The way I see it is that someone like Buggs might be around to show off a better way by teaching a “short cutter” a valuable lesson. A “short cutter” who’s hell bent, and either just plain old stubborn or really does not know and aught to seek further education for better advancement.
    So maybe the moral of that cartoon is learn from your mistakes and be nice to people (nothing like great customer service), or else one might end up like Daffy.
    (Well, I managed to turn what would have been a simple answer into a moral mini sermon…which may not even relate to the origional question anymore)
    Have a great day,
    Darren.

  • http://www.rittenhousecandleandsoap.com/ Danyelle Bush

    Yes! I started out the ‘collegiate” way. I made sure I was incorporated, had my business cards, business bank account, etc. etc. and when I had my website launched, I really thought I would not be able to keep up with the orders. :-) I was so naive.
    I learn lessons everyday to build my business. The basic lesson is connecting with people. I had everything to start a business, but to sustain my business I need to connect with people every day.
    I enjoyed this story. It is so important to teach our children about entrepreneurship.

  • http://www.rittenhousecandleandsoap.com Danyelle Bush

    Yes! I started out the ‘collegiate” way. I made sure I was incorporated, had my business cards, business bank account, etc. etc. and when I had my website launched, I really thought I would not be able to keep up with the orders. :-) I was so naive.
    I learn lessons everyday to build my business. The basic lesson is connecting with people. I had everything to start a business, but to sustain my business I need to connect with people every day.
    I enjoyed this story. It is so important to teach our children about entrepreneurship.

  • http://www.linkedin.com/pub/4/85/185 Marc Philip Goodman

    Hey, interesting post.
    Actually, personally speaking. I had a rough time around 6 months after starting our Ecommerce site and not having had much sales. We’ve had “some” traffic, but still no sales. We went through 2 different designs, and even setup PPC (sent around 30 clicks a day) and still no luck.
    Finally, one day, I was awoken by my business partner, who called to say that someone had called the business asking why they couldn’t place their order. Half awake, me and my brother ran to the computer to verify if in fact we were getting orders placed. We had 2 pending orders with some minor glitches. At last! We had orders coming in.
    There are two points to the story. 1) Check to make sure that your website is setup properly and test and test again. and 2) Be patient, do all you know, and go out and learn how to bring traffic, and once you’re about to quit, just push on for a few more moments. I’m pretty sure if you’re persistent enough and try enough things you will find success!

  • http://www.linkedin.com/pub/4/85/185 Marc Philip Goodman

    Hey, interesting post.
    Actually, personally speaking. I had a rough time around 6 months after starting our Ecommerce site and not having had much sales. We’ve had “some” traffic, but still no sales. We went through 2 different designs, and even setup PPC (sent around 30 clicks a day) and still no luck.
    Finally, one day, I was awoken by my business partner, who called to say that someone had called the business asking why they couldn’t place their order. Half awake, me and my brother ran to the computer to verify if in fact we were getting orders placed. We had 2 pending orders with some minor glitches. At last! We had orders coming in.
    There are two points to the story. 1) Check to make sure that your website is setup properly and test and test again. and 2) Be patient, do all you know, and go out and learn how to bring traffic, and once you’re about to quit, just push on for a few more moments. I’m pretty sure if you’re persistent enough and try enough things you will find success!

  • Angelia James

    “Teaching kids about business” I read the story about your “daughter’s garage” experience. I can totally relate. My passion is kids and women. I’m starting a Women Flag Football League in Monroe NC and it has been a chaallenge at one point I wanted to give up, I remember a friend tell me women in Monroe NC are lazy. I took that as a challenge, because I believe whatever you put your mind too, you can do it. I have that “go-getter” mentality. At first you don’t succeed, try and try again. Eventually something will happen. I’m very please for my Gardner Webb friends for words of encourage, “when you try to do something positive, it will take work” and I’m willing to work hard for it. We are still coming along and I’m believing it all will work out. So if you are from the Union County area and you want to play Women Flag Football age 18 and up send me an email at alouallen@yahoo.com and I will get back with you. The cost is $20 per person.

    • http://www.indiebusinessblog.com Donna Maria Coles Johnson

      Ha! I’m know that Monroe sure does have its fair share of lazy people, but it doesn’t have a corner on that market. Lazy people are everywhere. And so are achievers, and there are lots of them here too. I’ve seen you in action, so I know first hand what you have to offer. If you keep doing what you do, and keep the “go-getter” mentality, the achievers will find you. And then you’ll make even more magic. I love what you and your husband are doing to empower and uplift the youth in this area. We appreciate you!

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